So you have learned how to say mom, dad, baby (see How to say mom, dad and baby in Chinese?), younger sister, older sister, younger brother and older brother (see How to say sister and brother in Chinese?)Â in Chinese. In todayâ€™s lesson, the Chinese words I am teaching are grandma and grandpa.
First, let me give you a brief introduction about the language and culture background. The English language sees no difference between paternal and maternal relations. â€œGrandmaâ€ is for both fatherâ€™s mother and motherâ€™s mother. Fatherâ€™s father and motherâ€™s father are both called â€œgrandpaâ€. Â
In contrast, the Chinese language places an importance on the differences between paternal and maternal relationships. The differences mean a lot to Chinese people and determine the real relationships, near or distant, inside or outside, between relatives.
Therefore, in Chinese language the words for â€œgrandmaâ€ of paternal side and maternal side are strictlyÂ distinguished in pronunciation and writing: laolao or waipo, is for grandma on momâ€™s side, and nainai, dadâ€™s side. Similarly, â€œgrandpaâ€ on momâ€™s side translates as laoye or waigong, and yeye, dadâ€™s side.
Why there are differences between paternal and maternal grandparents in Chinese language? Traditionally, paternal relatives are regarded as basic units of Chinese social structure, while relatives of motherâ€™s, sisterâ€™s or daughterâ€™s are regarded as â€œoutsideâ€ of the core of the family line. That is why wai, meaning â€œoutsideâ€ or â€œfar and awayâ€, is usually used to address maternal relatives.
To make things even more complicated, for maternal grandma, there are two words, waipo and laolao. Generally speaking, laolao is more commonly used in the north part of China, whereas waipo is more common in the south. Similarly, laoye is used in the northern China, and waigong, in the southern China.
To make it easy for baby to start, the Chinese words for maternal grandma and maternal grandpa in todayâ€™s lesson donâ€™t contain any wai, or â€œoutsiderâ€. Therefore, grandparents on both dadâ€™s side and momâ€™s side are equally important.
Letâ€™s take a look.
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