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Before M went to work at 6:10 am this morning, he kissed me and said “see you this evening”.
“Drive carefully.” I said, looking at him leaving the door.
This was one of the routine mornings M and I experienced for the past 8 months. Similar or same scenes occurred so often that I felt I was experiencing the Groundhog Day.
To us, life is simple and plain, but full of love, harmony, content, and hope. This is enough for me.
At first, M was a little bit worried. He was worried that my emotions might change constantly that he couldn’t handle. I did have few weepy moments. But I soon realized the damage of negative emotions to me, my relationship and to my baby (see Maternal emotions & fetal movements). I quickly learned to control my emotions and life is getting better and better (see Fetal education in 4th month).
Everyday after M comes back home, I ask him how is his work going. Sometimes I give him a nice massage. We do a lot of things together—going to grocery stores, watching TV, going to theaters, dining out, visiting museums, and etc.
And we often talk, share opinions, and exchange information. Sometimes we have serious conversations about topics both of us are quite fascinated, such as belief, human nature, science, history, conspiracy theory, and of course, the future of our baby.
Pregnancy doesn’t tear us apart, but unit us closer than ever before.
